Ryan was called to be the 2nd counselor in the bishopric today. Its been a long few weeks of speculation after our bishop got called to be Stake President. Before we even left the Stake Center after that announcement was made, Ryan started getting razzed about taking his place as bishop. It only got worse the next day at work of all places, since he rides to work with 3 other members of our ward, and works with 4 total. Could'nt even get a break at work...poor guy. But at last the bantering can stop. He is not the bishop, but in fact one of his counselors, and he is excited and blessed to be able to serve with some awesome men. It will be a great Bishopric!
It was an emotional day, mostly for me. Dont know why, but every time someone would congratulate, or comment to me about it, the water works would start. Then after church the new bishopric and their families were invited in to be a part of the sustainings. I was a little concerned about having our 5 kids in the crowded bishops office after having them already sit through 3 hours of church, and being hungry and ready to leave. I questioned it a few times..."are you sure? You're sure you really want them ALL in here?" Turns out I was the one who was being disruptive, as I let out sobs as Ryan was ordained a high priest and sustained as the counselor. I turned out to be grateful that I had Brylee on my lap to hide my embarrassment behind, as I sat and wondered what in the world was wrong with me. None of the other people were crying...why was I? And loudly too. I didnt feel emotional...I just couldnt stop! To make it worse, we had to return later in the day to face all the same people I had just embarrassed myself in front of like a hysterical cry baby. Ughhh...
I guess all I have left to say is...it wasnt a shock to me that he was put in this position. It wouldnt have been a shock if he was called as Bishop (Some day). He is and always has been a faithful, worthy, strong, unwavering follower of Christ. He is the rock in our family. He is the rock in our marriage. He keeps us on the straight and narrow and always proves to be a shining example to us. I know he will do great things in this calling and for the people of our ward as he serves with all his being. He has dived in, and is ready to go. His only regret at this moment is that he truly loved his last calling as the Young Men President. He built strong relationships and bonds with those boys over the last 3 years. I know he was the same kind of example to them as he is to us. He keeps reminiscing about the good times they had together...at activities, dances, in Nauvoo, during drives in his old trusty civic, in the classroom as they discussed gospel principles. He is happy he will be able to work with them still in a different capacity. Im sure he will continue to be involved with them as often as he can.
Congratulations on this new step in your life babe! You are gonna rock!
And I will be taking on the kids solo during sacrament meeting. Wish me luck!
Now if only I can keep it together!!!!!
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Okay Heather, no need to be embarrassed. Remember how hysterical I was a month ago when I was released. I think I made the whole ward uncomfortable. Sunday was an overwhelming day. You had every right to an outlet.
So I was basically 100% sure Ryan would land in this Bishopric so I had to give Seth a big fat I told you so when we mysteriously bumped into you at the church on Saturday. I think the new Bishop and counselors are perfect for this ward right now, which you already know since you heard me cheering in the row behind you on Sunday. I do feel for you since you will be sitting alone though. My kids are so naughty that I can't even keep them quiet with two parents in the pew. Good luck and know we are praying for you!
Know you have had a big weekend - with becoming wife in the bishopric!!!
You have always been a great support to Ryan and kids - and holds it all together. Awesome!
Ryan, You bring me so much Joy that you are my son.That you support and surround yourself with good and get the job done.
I made a list of things you do that bless my life...and the lives of others.
I remember a conversation we had years ago about Pride!
and you explained to me that it was sometimes better to say "Well Pleased"
That I am!!!....
I know you will do a fantastic job as 2nd Counselor in the Bishopric. I feel you have
had the life style for years....
I believe you will find many blessings and bring many blessings to lives of others
and your family!!!
So proud of you Love so much!!
Mom!!!!
Ryan will do great. I wasn't the least bit surprised when his name was announced (as I was one who thought he'd make a great Bishop - he would!). Your family is so amazing. You put the rest of us to shame with your generosity, service, and pure awesomeness (and I'm mean both you and Ryan). I'm excited for the new Bishopric.
Now I'm just anxious to find out if Eric will get to keep his calling or not (or in other words, recalled to the same position). He loves working with those boys, and he's only been doing it for a handful of months, not years like Ryan! I'm glad for Ryan's sake that he'll get to continue to work with the Young Men.
Congrats Ryan and family! Having known him as long as I can remember it's not a suprise. Luckily, as a counselor he will work with the youth a lot. My husband spends so much time with the youth as a member of the bishopric. It will be great. Good luck on sacrament meeting. I learned to sit close enough for my husband to give the kids "the look" when they weren't being good for me. Ironically, my friend who's husband is other counselor learned to sit where her husband couldn't see how disruptive her kids might be and everyone was happier. Figure out what works, let others help you and just enjoy it for what it is a growing experience. Good luck!
I wasn't surprised either. Like I told you, I told Doug I thought Ryan would be bishop too. Funny how so many of us thought that.
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